Sophomore guy dating 8th grade girl
But at the same time they are not consciously aware of this, let alone articulate it.They just get frustrated and lose attraction for you.She probably saw it coming months ago and has been unconsciously preparing herself for this moment.You, on the other hand, are a deer caught in the headlights.You might not want to admit it yet – and not a whole lot of guys are able to – but your relationship is most likely beyond saving.If she initiated the breakup and you’re shocked, then she’s way ahead of you in processing this whole thing.
It’s one thing to be on the receiving end of a breakup.We often tend to give it our everything and connect to our beloved like we’ve never connected before.In reality that’s our inner insecurities surfacing, and it freaks women out over the long term.I knew that I couldn’t hold on to something that didn’t exist anymore, so I was able to let go.
If you can’t make that step just yet: fake it until you make it.
Because as long as you don’t take that step, you’re holding on to hope, you’re holding on to expectations, and you’re going to get painfully disappointed.